Top 6 Social Media No-Nos to Avoid
Everyone makes mistakes, but committing a major social media no-no has the potential of hindering your business’s hard-earned reputation. A good rule of thumb is, “when in doubt, don’t.” But, if you’re wondering about specifics, here are the top 6 social media mistakes to avoid, especially in the wake of some serious social media faux pas:
1. Don’t lash out: Sometimes it’s hard to deal with constructive and/or blatantly harsh criticism from others, especially on such an open public space or forum like Facebook. However, as we learned from the recent and epic social media meltdown that Amy’s Baking Company Bakery Boutique & Bistro had on Facebook, it’s an excellent example of what no to do. Owners, Amy & Samy Bouzaglo lashed out on Facebook in response to some not-so-nice criticism after airing on Gordon Ramsay’s, Kitchen Nigtmares. Instead of say, swearing, ranting for hours, “yelling” in all caps, calling customers “stupid,” and then trying to cover it all up, responding quickly and calmly to a customer’s complaint, and trying to resolve it as soon as possible is simply the best thing you can do.
2. Don’t buy followers or fans: It may be tempting to make social media a numbers game. The more followers or “Likes” you have, the cooler, more trusted, desirable brand you must be, right? However, the point of social media isn’t to acquire a mass following, but to build relationships with legitimate potential and current customers. It’s all about quality over quantity – You may have 1 million followers, but if half of them don’t exist or don’t actually give a hoot about your brand, you may as well have none. Focus on increasing the quality of your content rather than increasing your numbers, and you’ll build a solid strategy and fan base.
3. Don’t create fakes comments: Who doesn’t want engagement and comments on posts, as well as a few good reviews on various sites? The problem is, they just can’t come from you – It boils down to dishonesty, and customers can easily see through it. Instead, include calls-to-actions in your social posts like, “Like this post if you agree,” and ask questions that’ll entice customers to respond. Need more reviews on your Yelp page? Encourage customers, and/or even give rewards or discounts to those who do write reviews, but honest ones!
4. Don’t be “Sir Spam-a-Lot”: Commenting on other social media or blog posts purely for the purpose of getting your own brand out there screams “spammer.” If you think your content is relevant, contact the owner of the post and propose a real linking or collaboration strategy. If you offer value with your content, you may develop a meaningful relationship – Win-win. Check out our post, How to Connect with Online Influencers – Dos & Don’ts for more advice on how to approach these relationships.
5. Don’t plagiarize: Simple and true, “stealing content” aka plagiarism, isn’t cool. Content marketing is all the rage these days, however, creating your own quality content is of the utmost importance. It’s A-okay to use other posts, websites, articles and studies as a source as reference in your own content, but they absolutely must be cited and attributed – no ifs, ands or buts about it. If you’re sharing third party content on social media, or in blog post, (even if you’re paraphrasing), the source must be cited, including a link. Not sure how to go about this correctly? Check out our post, Journalism 101 – What Bloggers Need to Know for all the details.
6. Don’t embellish: Whether it’s a promotion, a contest, the specifics of what your service or product can offer, or a reaction to a mistake, exaggerating or embellishing can be incredibly obvious to a large audience. In our Amy’s Baking Company example above, the Bouzaglos later tried to cover up their major social media meltdown by posting, “Obviously our Facebook, YELP, Twitter and Website have been hacked. We are working with the local authorities as well as the FBI computer crimes unit to ensure this does not happen again. We did not post those horrible things. Thank You Amy &Samy[.]” Lying to backpedal instead of apologizing and owning up to a mistake will only backfire. Honesty is the best policy.
Have a craving for more social media “what-not-to-dos”? Check out our post, Scary Social Media Faux Pas – Don’t Be That Guy. Have any other tips or scary faux pas that you’ve witnessed on social media lately? Spill it!
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PS – sorry about the typos. Another lesson – never respond in haste…
Well duh. Guess I’m hopeless I already broke number one.
Great advice! I want to add my stupid experience online. I offered to market a charity on Facebook and set about getting them as many Likes as I could. I was made an Admin of their page. Then on another social media site, there was an offer of “Like my page, I’ll like yours” kind of thing, so I went for it and exchanged Likes, and the charity was getting more and more Likes. In return, I then had to Like their FB business pages, which I did not think anything wrong with. As you can imagine, in all this confusion, I forgot whose p[age I had Liked. Suddenly getting some very interesting information from one of them about their services, I went to oinvestigate. It’s a long story, but basically, they tried to hard-sell me something when I posted a buying question on their site, I politely declined, they insisted, and then I told them honestly what I thought of the service that they were trying to sell – in a public forum! I did not use bad words, I just said what was on their website about the service and said that it was the reason why the service was not right for me. The owner of the page then started threatening the charity and I got kicked off their Facebook page. I removed my posting and apologized by message to the person involved, saying this is what the website said and I was just saying what the website said meant that I did not consider the service right for me. The person got even angrier and looked like they were going to sue the charity I was trying so hard to help in the first place. Luckily, the charity escaped the wrath. It was not at all their fault I went stupid and said something too honest. I should have just quietly ignored the hard-sell until it finally stopped.
Lesson learned the hard way.
I’ve laughed so hard at watching that arizona restaurant dig itself into a hole. At least social media people have a text book example now.
Good tips and great Social Media advice! Thanks for sharing